Another Way of Viewing Addiction

THINK DIFFERENTThose who treat clients who face addiction; whether it is substance or behaviorally oriented come up against entrenched beliefs about what creates, feeds and sustains the insidious patterns and habits that devastate relationships, damage reputations, clean out bank accounts and obliterate lives. As clinicians, we too may have our biases, based on who walks through our doors.

Stereotypes include:

They have gotten entangled with the law

They end up robbing loved ones

They ignore personal hygiene

They are chronically unemployed or underemployed

They are poorly educated

They are financially bereft

They are homeless

They have an inability to maintain relationships

They are revolving door clients/patient

They are younger people

Once a drug addict, always a drug addict

Someone always has to hit rock bottom before rising to recovery

Counter to That Image

Many addicts:

Are high functioning

Are gainfully employed

Have family and friends who love them

Have active social lives

Have not stolen to maintain their habit

Are well groomed, with good hygiene

Help out in their communities

Have not gotten in trouble with the law

They may be any age

Present as successful

According to Gabor Maté, MD, author of the bestselling book “In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts.”

“In the final analysis, it’s not the activity or object that defines the addiction, but our relationship to whatever is the external focus of our attention or behavior.”

Dr. Maté explained that one person can drink alcohol and not become a habitual drinker. He defines an addiction as “any repeated behavior, substance-related or not, in which a person feels compelled to persist, regardless of its negative impact on his life or the lives of others.”

Unpredictable Nature

The National Institute on Drug Abuse indicates the complicated and unpredictable nature of drug addiction. According to a fact sheet from the agency. “Risk for addiction is influenced by a combination of factors that include individual biology, social environment, and age or stage of development. The more risk factors an individual has, the greater the chance that taking drugs can lead to addiction.”

Cross addictions, or trading one addiction for another, are common because the brain and body might have become accustomed to the flow of neurotransmitters that activate the reward circuit in the limbic system and lead it to crave higher levels of pleasure.

When one engages in specific behaviors, such as gambling, shopping or ingesting substances, these substances are released. When a tolerance has developed, the brain seeks higher levels of stimulation.

Releasing one behavior leaves a vacancy for another. For example, a client in an outpatient drug rehab might put down the bottle, only to hit the casino and lose a few thousand dollars, while another person might give up a heroin habit but spend hours a day hunched over a computer indulging in Internet pornography and still another might go on a spending spree without concern about racking up credit card bills that they may not be able to pay.

Meeting A Need

Dr. Maté has compared his shopping compulsion to the extreme and life threatening addictions of the clients he treated for 12 years in a Vancouver clinic. Although, his habit of spending a few hundred dollars a visit at his local record store might seem clean and safe compared to actions among his patients such as shooting heroin with re-used needles or swallowing someone else’s cheeked and expectorated methadone, he reminds readers that the process within the brain is the same.

Pure and simple, the addiction meets a need. People who experience addiction often desire to mask some kind of physical or emotional pain. When they engage in addictive behaviors, the body or mind feels temporary relief or some other perceived beneficial response. With each episode of partaking, the pattern begins to set, much like thread woven through a loom.

Addiction to Achieving

A professional woman with workaholism experiences an adrenaline rush when she accomplishes everything and then some on her to-do list. She stays up to work despite fatigue. She’s spurred on by feedback from people who notice her achievements. She eagerly anticipates starting work each day, awakening early to begin.  When she can’t sleep, she writes. She multitasks with ease. She identifies as her livelihood, even as she’s aware of her patterns.

She too is held captive, as surely as Dr. Mate’s patients, even though she doesn’t drink, smoke or use drugs. This behavior led to a series of health crises that had her recognizing the severity of her addiction. She is aware that workaholism is the only addiction that is encouraged by many cultures.

The pattern was formed in her childhood with parents who were accomplished and hard working. Although it wasn’t verbalized, she internalized the expectation to be the same. She measured her worth in kudos and nods of approval, as well as good grades.

When her performance was less than stellar, she was her harshest critic. She had learned how to bask in the spotlight at an early age. A cycle was created as she adapted to the needs of others to continue the flow of positive feedback.

Thus was born a second addiction: co-dependence.

She developed the skills of “reading” others to determine what they wanted and meeting their needs before they voiced them. Even though she is painfully aware of her patterns, they still sometimes take her by surprise.

Her recovery involves daily introspection and self-evaluation. She incorporates the principles of 12-step programs into her daily life and has accountability partners who encourage her to address her problematic habits when they arise. Admitting to feeling anxiety and frustration when she’s prevented in some way from doing her work, she seeks healthy means of addressing these setbacks. Moderation is an important goal for her.

Taking Stock of His Life

By all appearances, Ryan Skinner was a clean cut, highly successful financial planner. Not many in his life knew his insidious secret, which was that he could easily spend countless dollars a day feeding his addiction to heroin.

It didn’t start that way, rather, it began more innocently, through a drinking habit in his youth that was intended to mask his sense of low self-esteem and to help him become what he terms, “surface social.”

He claims, “I wasn’t supposed to become an addict.”  There were no markers that could have predicted it, according to Skinner. He viewed himself as a functioning alcoholic whose intake increased as his income did. In his 20’s, hand surgery led to a Percoset addiction. Later on, other drugs took him on a downward spiral.

What he makes abundantly clear is that for him, “Drugs weren’t a problem. They were a solution.”

He says that everything looked faster and moved faster in his life. It was when the speed got out of control, that he turned for help, since his “soul was dying inside.”

Jail time, probation, a spiritual epiphany and making an agreement with the God of his understanding, as well as being taken under the wing of a 12 step sponsor assisted him in entering and sustaining recovery.

Not only does he join the group who say that they are ‘grateful recovering addicts,’ but pays it forward via Ryan’s Fund which raises money to assist children of drug addicts who have died. Simple things that most take for granted, like new socks, are some of what they purchase for these youngsters.

In addition, it supports veterans and homeless individuals. He speaks to groups in prisons as well, offering encouragement and a light in the despair and darkness of addiction.

Hearing Skinner’s story gives this clinician hope that recovery is possible and that from the ashes can rise the Phoenix.




Another Way of Viewing Addiction


APA Reference
Weinstein, E. (2016). Another Way of Viewing Addiction. Psych Central. Retrieved on June 27, 2019, from


Scientifically Reviewed
Last updated: 24 Jun 2016
Last reviewed: By John M. Grohol, Psy.D. on 24 Jun 2016
Published on All rights reserved.