2 thoughts on “The Unspoken Rules for Living with a Narcissist

  • September 5, 2017 at 12:55 pm

    Thank you so much for this. I am sitting at work, consumed with thoughts of him, missing him, praying that he flies in on a hang-glider followed by a 10 piece marching band, with a ring and a tearful apology and a proposal. Then I stumbled on this article during my lunch break, and it has helped to take away that fairy tale thinking and replace it with the truth of exactly what our 3 and a half years looked like, and what a marriage to him would look like…and what the marriage he had before me with his ex looked like. There is so much cognitive dissonance inside of me, but these articles help me to stay in reality and grounded in truth. Thank you so much. This is exactly what I needed to get me through. [No contact since June 25, 2017, after multiple attempts.]


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