2 thoughts on “Types of Abusers: The “Victim”

  • January 22, 2019 at 10:14 am

    good one thank you Sharie
    this is my situation to a tee, I’m glade the word Narcissistic or Narcissist was only used once.
    To me it was obvious what the article was referring to anyway. But refrained from labeling.
    I would like to see more of this and want to know more of the effects of a long, long term relationship of this type on the target and what the target go’s through in time. Perhaps that’s an other article.

    • January 31, 2019 at 6:44 am

      Hi Bob,
      I feel the labels are for those of us who have been abused by these people. Most ‘Cluster B’s’ will never be officially diagnosed. And, to be frank, I am past caring whether these so-called humans are somehow ‘done wrong’ by a label! I know what my abusers were – they were narcissists, possibly BPD and sociopathic, and that’s enough for ME. I’m past focusing on what they need. Time to care about myself for a change!


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